Counselor Adams Kittson-Kotsinya
This observation made me understand that couples excelling in their imperfect marriages have one thing in common that those divorcing do not have, which is they see worthiness in their imperfect spouses. No one is perfect, and until one sees his fellow worthy yet imperfect, they can learn to stay together for life with that person. People who usually divorce want perfection in their spouses, which no one has. Divorce will surely hit your door if this mindset is in you. Every woman wants a perfect husband or Mr. Right. Likewise, every man wants an ideal wife, but the question is, is there ever a perfect partner as we think since most of us are coming from the seed of corruption? Many couples are divorcing because they do not know the benefits their imperfect spouse can give them.This book will help you view your spouse in the proper manner, which will prevent damage to your home and marriage. Knowing how to handle your imperfect spouse promptly will help you to be more patient as a husband or wife. All this book needs from you is to take it practically as you read. This book will highlight the practical solutions to your partner’s shortcomings. The concept of having a perfect spouse or marriage has been an ancient deception for a long simply because the world itself is not that perfect and with all that in it. How can the top of a thing (marriage) be ideal if the root (sin) is imperfect? Why do we even want to marry perfect spouses when we are not all that perfect to God’s standards, humanity, and our neighbors? Do we not cheat, kill, steal, and even tell lies sometimes? Why do we want to marry spouses who do not do everything we do in secret and in the open?Some spouses even watch other couples from afar, saying they are having beautiful marriages, while they do not know what they are going through because they are also human beings like you. Please note that imperfections are with all of us. Moreover, what you will do with yours will make you a unique or different couple.Having a heart of perfection will only lead you to divorce one day. I married an imperfect wife, and I must maintain her for life. That is my call of duty. Please relax and enjoy this book, and consider yourself, your marriage, your spouse, your children, and all that comes with it to keep your marriage safe by removing the mindset of being in a marriage with a perfect husband or wife.